Waveshare 7 Inch DSI display - how to turn off completely?

All the “hdmi_xxx” options are irrelevant for your DSI display. In your “/boot/userconfig.txt” try replacing

lcd_rotate=2
display_hdmi_rotate=2
display_lcd_rotate=2

hdmi_group=2
hdmi_mode=87
hdmi_timings=400 0 100 10 140 1280 10 20 20 2 0 0 0 60 0 43000000 3
hdmi_blanking=1

with

dtoverlay=vc4-kms-v3d-pi4
dtoverlay=vc4-kms-dsi-7inch

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